Ok, I can only state exactly what it is that I am looking for.

For starters, I’m ready to get married, I don’t have time for games, and I’m not into casual relationships.

I am not suggesting I want to get married tomorrow, what I am saying is that I am marriage minded, and if you can’t see that kind of life, if “forever” isn’t enough, then please move on to the next.

It’s just like I said it earlier, I am so done with the adultery and fornication, I’m so no longer the pimp and playa, I’m going to be a one woman man. Yes, when I make that vow, when I commit, it will be fo life, ’til death do us part.

So, let me state what it is exactly I’m looking for, and what I expect in a relationship.

I’ve stated it before, communication is very important to me, for various reasons. Without communication, it’s difficult to know what both the husband and wife are thinking and feeling. It’s more than just saying hi and asking how was your day, it’s getting to know one another, speaking about personal, private issues that we may be dealing with as individuals. The husband and wife are to grow closer to GOD through each other, and that’s not possible to do without communication.

Yes, I will call my wife, I will check up on her, but that’s not because I don’t trust her, it’s because I care about her, and want to make sure she’s doing ok. I’m the kind of man who may call out of the blue just to say I love you.

We may only talk for 5 minutes, we may not say much, but I’ll still tell you I love you.

If you don’t like a man to say that he loves you, then you’re probably not going to like me in a relationship. The difference between myself and others is that I don’t just throw that word around lightly, if I say it, I mean it. The difference between myself and others is that I love the Lord our GOD first and foremost, I love Him with ALL my mind, and ALL my heart, and ALL my soul! I love my brothers and sisters (all humanity) as I love myself, and even more than I love my own self, if that makes sense. Do I love myself? Yes, I do, but I love others more.

So, now that you know that about me, let’s get into some specific details. I have a strong libido, and if you don’t have a strong libido, it may be difficult for us to come to some kind of compromise in the bedroom. I’m the kind of man who loves to please his woman, and goes out of his way to make sure she’s satisfied. It’s 68 and you don’t owe me anything!

I don’t mean to be so blunt, but that’s just how I am, I am very blunt, I don’t have time to play games. Yes, I love to make love to my woman, I love to make her orgasm. Just as I am perfecting my skills with technology, I want and need to perfect my skills when it comes to making love. Sex? Anyone can have sex, that’s easy. Making love? That can’t be done without love, without some kind of emotional and mental involvement. Yes, I can easily make a woman cum, I’m not trying to lie on my d**k, I’m just being open and honest. I tell you this, though I do have experience, I haven’t really been with a woman in over three years, so I need to practice often when I get married, so that I can build back up my stamina and endurance. Practice makes perfect, and I wanna be that kind of man who knows how to please his woman, and knows what she needs from him. I love it when a woman makes the first move, it don’t take much to get me hard. A simple kiss, a simple touch, a simple look, can give me an erection that could break a 4×4. If a woman doesn’t make the first move often, if she’s shy and timid, then I can be gentle, and take my time, I will make the first move eventually, but I prefer to wait until she makes the first move, that way she knows that I’m not trying to pressure her or rush her, I want it to be when she wants it, I want to make love to her when she wants me to make love to her. Will I lead? Absolutely! Can I be dominant? Yes. I can also follow, and I can be submissive, I am versatile. I will tell you though, if I make the first move, and I get rejected, I may wait a while before I try again. If I try again, and I get rejected again, why then I’ll wait even longer before I make a move again. If I’m rejected a third time, then I’ll stop trying, I can go months without it if I really have to. If a woman wants to play that kind of game, if she wants to put me on time-out, and wants to see how much I can take before I just take it, then I suggest she not go there with me, because I’ll win that game.

Obviously just talking about what we each like and don’t like, talking about our sexuality, talking about what we could try, is also important to me. How can I know what pleases you if you don’t tell me? How can I know if you want me to go faster if you don’t let me know? Talk dirty to me, and I get turned on. The more turned on you get, the more into it you are, the more turned on I get, and the more into it I am. That’s just how I am.

So I want to snuggle afterward, I want to hold a woman, I want to caress her body, I want to talk about it afterwards. If you don’t like that, if you’re not into men who are just as affectionate after making love as before or during, then don’t think about marrying me. Otherwise, I’m just putting it out there, I’m just being real, open, and honest, since I seem to have become some kind of famous.

Damn, right now I’d love to be making love to a woman, but since I’m not yet married, I gotta stop thinking about making love to a woman. Right now my mind’s in the gutter, and I don’t want to get it out, I wanna dwell on these lascivious thoughts. I wanna get dirty, I wanna get nasty, I wanna get kinky, but I’m alone and I’m not going to just go out and have sex. I’d rather wait until some special woman marries me, so I can truly say that for at least some period of time I have indeed been saving all my love for her.

What’s on my mind now is sex, but what’s in my heart is love.

What’s on my mind isn’t in my heart.